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03Nov

A Testimonial – preparation is everything

I can’t afford to session very often, so I choose the Mistresses I session with very carefully. There isn’t much worse than paying out hard earned money for a session and not enjoying it, so I tend to do some research before booking a session.

I was intrigued by Mistress Ella’s website and her tweets. She obviously has a very high level of intelligence and a clear understanding of the D/s synergy and fetishes. I booked a session and Mistress Ella told me to send her a concise email outlining my session preferences and hard limits. I told Mistress that I like as much humiliation and degradation as possible as long as it is safe, and that I preferred Mistress to decide how to achieve that.

Wow! Although the session was an hour long, it rapidly became clear that Mistress had spent a lot longer than that preparing for the session. She is an absolute perfectionist. Others have said that Mistress Ella leaves no stones unturned in pursuit of the perfect session. There are no unturned stones in Mistress Ella’s domain.

At the start of the session, I kneeled naked in front of this beautiful statuesque Goddess and she ordered me to open my mouth. She spat straight into my mouth and simultaneously yanked at a cord tied around my balls, ordering me to swallow. That happened several times during the session.

Mistress sat on her throne and ordered me to fetch a sandwich from the fridge. As I knelt at her feet, she chewed the sandwich then spat the chewed food into my mouth and ordered me to eat it while looking into her eyes. Mistress spat the entire chewed sandwich into my mouth in what was the most intensely erotic experience I’ve ever had.

I was then ordered to remove Mistress’s shoes and worship her feet. Mistress told me she had just been for a 5 mile run, and although her feet were clean, they were very sweaty and had a strong natural aroma, which I loved. Mistress made me look into her eyes while I licked and sucked her feet clean. Her smile and the glint in her eyes told me that she was loving the control she had over me.

I was then ordered to lay on the floor and open my mouth wide. To my surprise (but delight) Mistress farted into my mouth and squeezed my balls. She stayed there long enough to ensure I had to breathe out through my nose, thereby getting the full scent and taste. This is exactly the kind of humiliation that I crave.

Mistress then sat on her toilet seat and told me to lay underneath it with my mouth open. She told me she was going to pee into my mouth and that I would be punished if there was any spillage. In spite of my best efforts, I couldn’t keep up with the deluge, and true to her word, Mistress punished me by strapping me to her bench and caning me. It hurt but I deserved it. And needed it.

After thanking Mistress for my punishment and guidance I was strapped the the cross. Mistress applied nipple clamps to my nipples and slowly increased the tension while giving me intense verbal humiliation, while ordering me to look directly into her beautiful eyes. She then attached the e-stim to my cock, slowly increasing the intensity while verbally humiliating me and I came to the most shuddering, explosive climax I’ve ever experienced.

Although the I’d paid for an hour, the session overran slightly, which impressed me. A Mistress who doesn’t keep a close eye on the clock is a rarity. Mistress Ella’s entire focus is on providing and enjoying the best possible experience. She achieves that in abundance.

Looking forward to my next visit very much!

02Nov

A Testimonial – an amazing experience and a high

Had a great session with Mistress Ella.

Communications were really easy, quick phone call and a 60 minute booking was arranged for 45 minutes later.
Premises were easy to find close to the centre of Huddersfield and parking was easy in a safe area.

Mistress took me upstairs, and although conversational, was already getting me in the zone with her voice and dominant demeanour. I could see a kitchen and 3 rooms although there may be more – a bedroom (sissy room?), medical type room with a sort of dentist chair, and the dungeon. The dungeon was a reasonable size and quite well equipped – cage, spanking bench, St Andrews Cross, loads of whips, canes, paddles, torture implements etc. It was nicely decorated in red and black and dimly lit.

Mistress got me to undress in the bedroom, present myself in the hall, clarified my BDSM interests, then led me into the dungeon. What followed was a whirlwind of the activities discussed, where she carefully pushed me into subspace, to the point where I could take so much more than usual.

I was tied to the cross and Mistress went to work on my nipples with a variety of implements, followed by a little CBT, choking, and generally roughing me up.

I was then moved across to her throne and made to worship her cock and boots all the way up. I think what got me into subspace was the way Mistress seemed to be enjoying everything that was going on, and almost getting off on it. Her dirty talk was superb and she kept in role so nicely that I had now drifted into that one.

I was moved to the spanking bench where Mistress expertly slipped her cock in and shagged me senseless to the point where I had 3 prostate orgasms. All the while with lots of attention to my nipples.

Then out came the floggers and a wonderful caning, where i was able to be hit hard enough to mark and whelt my bottom, something I’ve always wanted to achieve. What also helped was that the hits were very accurate and swapped from cheek to cheek.

Then into the medical room where I got to worship Mistress’s body and amazing boobs, and finally into bedroom to finish me off.
All in all an amazing experience and high.

28Oct

Fantastic session!

I let my slave in and ordered him to keep his eyes on the floor.
“Only look up when I allow you to”
I sat on my throne and ordered him to his knees, to worship my boots.
He loved allowing the stiletto to go to the back of his throat.
After a while, I led him into the play room.
He new what was coming once I’d attached him to my St Andrews Cross.
I squeezed his nipples as I whispered to him: “Take it!”
I attached pegs to his balls and nipple clamps to his balls.

After I had had my fun I strapped him to the bench before lubing him up.
I stood in front of a him and ordered him to suck my cock. He loved it, feeling my strap on go down his throat, he couldn’t get enough…
He was so excited at the thought of having my strap on inside him..
He loved every minute of being fucked.
I took him into the medical room, it was time to feel the electrics around his cock.
I could see he was worried, just by the look on his face, as I attached my e-stim to his cock.
I slowly turned it up just enough, each time. I wanted him to feel every bit of this….
After a short while, I could see he had relaxed and was enjoying it, just as I was about to go up the last notch, he started to beg “Please Mistress may I come?” He had the best climax he’d ever had.

18Oct

Spanking Session

My half an hour spanking session client arrived at the door.
I opened the door and ordered him to get on his hands and knees.
I directed him up the stairs, he went up squirming and begging “please Mistress I’m not going over your knee”
I reminded him I will do what ever I like.
Still begging I ordered him over my knee.
As I began to pull his pants down, he was egging.me again,
“please no, I might smell” I told him how embarrassing for him it would be if he did, dirty, smelly pig.
I spanked his bum wearing my leather gloves, he was wriggling about trying to get free., No chance of that when I have a hold of you!

20Sep

Strap-on Training

My new slave arrived, he was ordered up the stairs on his hands and knees ..
After a short discussion, I summoned him to present himself to me naked..
So you want to be trained to be my strap on slut do you?
The excitement in his voice said it all; yes Mistress.
I led him into the play room, where I have various strap-ons, as well as butt plugs waiting..
On his knees I lead him to the mirror…
Staring into his eyes…. I told him, before you feel, you must taste, pointing to my strapon, that I’m wearing.
He didn’t need telling twice… He couldn’t wait to get feel it in his mouth. I sat back and watched just how much he loved taking it to the back of his throat.
I ordered him to assume position on the bench, hand cuffing him to it.
I told my slave I would start off small with a butt plug and work my way up.
He love each and every size I gave him . Your not quite ready for the big one yet, I told him.
Just before the session ended I used my stretcher on him. I pushed the dildo in and gave 4 squeezes that he had to hold for 5 seconds…
Next time it will be for longer….

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19Sep

Testimonial from a grateful submissive

I do a lot of research before I session with a Mistress I haven’t met before. After all, I don’t get much spare time, so I like to use my spare time well. I was intrigued by Mistress Ella’s tweets and blogs, as well as the varied testimonials on her website. She is clearly a highly intelligent and perceptive Mistress, and that turns me on.

When Mistress Ella opened the door, I was taken aback by her beautiful face and hourglass figure. She has the most amazing legs too. But looks aren’t everything. Expertise and intelligence are more important to me, and wow she has those in abundance. She just oozes quality.

I liked Mistress Ella’s warmth and candour during our extensive pre-session chat. Building rapport and trust even before the session started. That relaxed me enough to be able to submit to her totally and bend to her will.

Although I was given a safeword system to use, I never needed to use it because Mistress gauged my levels perfectly, pushing me to the limit but always in a way that was enjoyable. Mistress used a flogger, strap, various canes, a single tail whip and needles. And when she told me to get down and kiss her feet, then look into her eyes while I drank a large glass of her pee, believe me, she meant business!

Mistress Ella’s place has free parking. It’s also massive inside. A dark dungeon with whipping bench, St Andrews Cross and loads of impact play tools, a white medical room for needle play etc., and a boudoir room. Spotlessly clean with no clutter. I felt at home in there!

After the session we had a chat to discuss how the session went for both of us. No stone was left unturned. Nothing left to chance. I could tell that Mistress Ella was absorbing everything I said.

Every now and again you come across a Mistress who is right on top of her game. In my opinion, Mistress Ella is in the top 1% of Mistresses. Fantastic premises, well equipped, very attractive and a highly intelligent Domme. A real luxury experience that I intend to repeat very quickly. I’ve booked for a 2 hour session already. Can’t wait!

19Sep

My toilet slave

My toilet slave presented himself in position ready to serve, feeling the poppers he had just inhaled.
With his Mouth open, I let my warm piss fill his mouth, before I ordered him to swallow.
He knew the consequences of wasting my golden nectar.
He really didn’t want to be cold caned today..
He was eager to taste my shit, but I wanted to make him beg for it.. Listening to him begging for my shit was highly amusing… The fact that he was willing to swallow it, if I gave it to him, pleased me.
He lay there waiting, mouth opened, it was a perfect landing, straight into his mouth. I looked down at my toilet slave, shit hanging out of his mouth.
Trying to not waste it, he started to chew. I looked into his eyes and watched until every last bit was gone..
I wasn’t finished.. There was more to come… Although I didn’t want my slave to swallow this one., he still had to catch it in his mouth.
This one, was going in a tub, for my slave to take home.
I ordered my slave to go clean himself up.
I was stood ready wearing my strap on, I ordered slave to his knees. I pointed to my cock and said suck!
He loved having my cock in his mouth, before being bent over and fucked. He loved my cock riding him…
I could tell he wanted more, but I wouldn’t let him… Instead I wanted him to feel my fist going in to his hole.
Starting the process of preparing his hole to be stretched to fit my fist in, was a dream come true for my slave..
This time.. To the knuckles.. Next time, will depend how I feel at the time.

13Sep

Subspace

This blog post is for submissives who have never experienced the euphoria of subspace. Specifically, it is about the physical subspace that can occur during pain play. Perhaps you don’t even know what subspace is? There’s no shame in that, but let me assure you that you don’t know what you are missing; BDSM doesn’t have to be merely about pain and humiliation. The phenomenon of subspace is both achievable and highly desirable when enjoying BDSM practices as a submissive.

So what is subspace? And what causes it?

Although different people experience subspace in different ways, I can make some generalisations that will give you a good understanding of what subspace feels like, and hopefully tempt you to experience subspace with a Mistress who has a thorough comprehension of the subject of subspace.

Subspace is caused by the release of relatively high amounts of certain hormones such as endorphins, enkephalins and epinephrine during a session. This hormone release causes a morphine-like anaesthesia and a feeling of total relaxation and ecstasy. A good Domme knows how to cause the rapid and safe release of these hormones.

During subspace, the pain is – literally – anaesthetised. It doesn’t even feel like pain any more. It is pure euphoric pleasure. In that moment, everything ceases to exist apart from you and the Domme you are with. You are thinking of nothing and no one else. You are in a euphoric, trance-like condition; a divine, metaphysical experience. It is one of the best feelings ever.

Subspace – especially the deepest subspace – is so powerful and enjoyable that while you are in it, you will almost certainly stop using safewords because you won’t be feeling much pain and you may not be capable of making levelheaded judgements about your safety. It is therefore incumbent upon the Domme to take care of you and not overdo things and cause damage. This should not put you off allowing yourself to be put into subspace. Just choose your Domme carefully. There MUST be complete trust between the two of you.

After the session, when you have come out of subspace and all those extra hormones have been flushed from your brain, you might experience something called sub drop. I suppose you could liken it to mild withdrawal symptoms. Sub drop will affect different people differently. You might feel cold; tired; emotional; happy. Or you might not be affected at all. A good Domme will help you with the effects of sub drop. In any case, by being aware of the possibility of sub drop, it doesn’t have to massively negatively affect your post session moments.

Subspace is a wonderful, spellbinding, enchanting state of mind that vastly intensifies and increases the pleasure you get while in session. Try it and see just how amazing your sessions can be.

08Sep

A life changing experience

Hi Mistress ELLA,
Thank you so much for a life changing experience, i so adored praying to you my Goddess

I felt the presence of you power it overwhelmed me it has touched my soul.

I have never felt so emotional, I so wanted to show you my submission i did not realise how much
it meant to me ,i hope it made you happy.
I am away for 1/2 weeks i will contact you for permission for another session.

If it is your wish i can send some prayers to show my gratitude and loving service to you every few weeks.

Thank you so so much again for allowing me to worship your Divine Goddess Mistress ELLA

 

In the name of the most Divine Goddess Mistress Ella
Goddess most Glorious

Goddess most Powerful

Goddess Most Almighty.Amen

O eternal Mistress Ella
You ordered me to be your servant
and adore your Divine image each day of my life

You have shown me how to express my emotions through my submission
and this has given me so much joy
The honour and the glory is all yours
Let all your sub missives and servant’s bring praise to you always
And in every moment let use praise and thank you for your mercy and love,Amen

Yours Very Respectfully
M

07Sep

Another amazing session with Yorkshire Mistress Ella

Another amazing session with Yorkshire Mistress Ella.

Mistress Ella is every bit as beautiful as you’ve read in her other testimonials, and with such an incredibly sexy well toned figure.  Even when you’ve seen her before, her beauty and her sexiness hit you as soon as she opens the door.  Every time I look at her, I just think: “Wow!”  Sometimes I say it out loud.

In session, Mistress Ella knows exactly how to push the right buttons; saying the right things at the right time; knowing that BDSM is really about power exchange; being able to inflict exactly the right amount of pain.  We went through impact play, CBT, foot worship and needle play.  Amazing.

I really can’t wait to go back.

Wow!